{"id":2139,"date":"2015-07-07T18:49:32","date_gmt":"2015-07-07T18:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sophiaeducationfunds.org\/?p=2139"},"modified":"2015-07-07T18:49:32","modified_gmt":"2015-07-07T18:49:32","slug":"jo-no-ajudo-a-la-meva-dona-amb-els-nens-ni-amb-les-feines-de-casa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sophiaeducationfunds.org\/ca\/jo-no-ajudo-a-la-meva-dona-amb-els-nens-ni-amb-les-feines-de-casa\/","title":{"rendered":"Jo no ajudo a la meva d\u00f3na amb els nens ni amb les feines de casa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aquest mat\u00ed he anat de passeig i al supermercat amb els nens (ja tenen 15 mesos, estan per menjar-se&#8217;ls, de veritat!). A la cua, es em posen a parlar un parell de senyores, i les dues conclouen el mateix: <em>&#8220;hi ha que veure, el que ajuden ara els homens a les seues dones amb\u00a0los fills&#8221;<\/em>. Aquesta \u00e9s una d&#8217;aquelles situacions que m&#8217;encanten per poder provocar una mica i treure el meu costat m\u00e9s feminista. Per\u00f2 avui es feia tard per dinar i m&#8217;he limitat a somriure, agrair i seguir a casa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img class=\"lazyload alignnone size-full wp-image-2759\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%271170%27%20height%3D%27500%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%201170%20500%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%271170%27%20height%3D%273500%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-orig-src=\"http:\/\/www.albertosoler.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/POST.png\" alt=\"ni\u00f1os\" width=\"1170\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQue qu\u00e8 li hauria dit a aquestes senyores? Probablement, com en altres ocasions, els hauria respost amb un <em>&#8220;disculpi senyora, per\u00f2 no, ni ajudo ni penso ajudar a la meva dona amb els fills&#8221;<\/em>. I passaria a explicar-quin \u00e9s el meu punt de vista al respecte.<\/p>\n<p>Abans de tenir fills jo mai he estat d&#8217;aquestes parelles o marits que ajuden a la seva dona amb les tasques de casa. Per\u00f2 \u00e9s que la meva dona tampoc m&#8217;ha ajudat mai. I quan van arribar els fills les coses van seguir m\u00e9s o menys igual: ni l&#8217;he ajudat amb la casa ni ara amb els fills. Hi haur\u00e0 algun que encara no hagi enxampat de qu\u00e8 va la cosa i estigui pensant meravelles sobre mi i apiad\u00e1ndose de la meva dona (pobreta, sovint li ha tocat!). No, jo no ajudo a la meva dona amb els nens perqu\u00e8 no puc ajudar a alg\u00fa amb una cosa que \u00e9s la meva responsabilitat.<\/p>\n<p>Els fills, igual que les tasques dom\u00e8stiques, no s\u00f3n el patrimoni de ning\u00fa: ni pertanyen a la dona ni pertanyen a l&#8217;home. S\u00f3n responsabilitat de tots dos. Per aquest motiu m&#8217;arriba a ofendre quan, de manera molt benintencionat (s\u00f3c conscient) em afalaguen amb &#8220;tot el que ajudo a la meva dona&#8221;. Com si no fossin els meus fills o no fos la meva responsabilitat. Faig, amb molt d&#8217;esfor\u00e7 i molt de gust ni m\u00e9s ni menys que all\u00f2 que em correspon. Igual que la meva dona. I per molt que m&#8217;esforci mai podr\u00e9 arribar a fer tant i tan b\u00e9 com fa ella.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a style=\"line-height: 1.5;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.albertosoler.es\/yo-no-ayudo-mujer-los-ninos-tareas-casa\/\" target=\"_blank\">Seguir ll<\/a>egint<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aquest mat\u00ed he anat de passeig i al supermercat amb els nens (ja tenen 15 mesos, estan per menjar-se&#8217;ls, de veritat!). 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